2021.10.19 16:57 tenorclef1 Contact the ex of my ex
THE BREAKUP: About a month ago I broke up with my girlfriend. She ended it with me. We will call her Erica. It's been very hard for me, and the reasons for her to end it are not completely clear. We had so many key things in common, which we both agreed are hard to find. From my perspective, there was so much potential, and things were really starting to take off. Doing all the available research, I think she might have an avoidant attachment style. She might have feared being smothered. Just as things got real for her, she lost attraction and had to get out.
MY EX's PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP: Throughout the relationship, Erica talked about her previous ex, Albert. She actually owned a house together with him, and they were together much longer than us. The funny thing with Erica is that she was always extremely transparent with everything, but on emotional issues it was hard to understand her. When she talked about why she broke up with Albert, her story just didn't make sense. When a story doesn't make sense, there is something missing about it.
CONTACTING MY EX's EX: My question is whether I should contact Albert. I know all you guys will say to let sleeping dogs lie. I haven't contacted Erica since the breakup, and I will continue to exercise restraint and not do it. But I wonder what insight I could gain by talking to Albert. This all depends upon whether he would talk to me or share anything meaningful. But just try to think about contacting Albert hypothetically.
I HAVE DONE IT BEFORE: Years ago I admit I contacted the other ex of my ex. Her name was Michelle, and her ex was Brendan. Brendan gladly told me all about the patterns they had. I even found out that Michelle cheated on him with some other guy. All of a sudden the pieces of the puzzle came together why she was always accusing me of cheating when I never did. Mistrust from Michelle's end was a big reason we broke up in the end. I later found out that Brandon told Michelle about our conversation, but it didn't matter anyway because we were already apart. The conversation with Brandon helped me to heal and move on.
Should I contact Albert? Is there anything I should expect or be cautious of?
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2021.10.19 16:57 F1F2F3F4F5F6F7F8 Fidelity Adds Bank of America to Deposit Sweeps Program
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2021.10.19 16:57 Rorykieth74 FIFA 21 not updating team sheets properly? (PS5)
I tried updating my team sheets for the first time since before the transfer window first opened, and I don't think it's updated everything. For example, Messi is at PSG, but Varane and Ronaldo aren't at United? I wanted to play an arsenal career mode but we have the same squad since before the window opened. Any ideas? Did I do something wrong?
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2021.10.19 16:57 SONU_Rathi Consumption of alcohol or other intoxicants is a heinous sin.
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2021.10.19 16:57 hamzalahlou69 Crush advice needed
Hey everyone im not sure if my crush likes me or s jyst being friendly towards me were both at the same high school same age but different classes we used to talk at the start of the school year btw i dint know them before this cause i changed high schools we had similar friend groups and went out with other friends when we didnt have class i realized i was catching feelings from the start i think she was even being Flirty or at least i think so cause the first thing she said when we first met after exchanging names she said this to my classmates your lucky to have *me* on their class wich gave me butter flies but the sad thing is now she has way too many friends and is kinda popular so we only talk for a few minutes at max each day but we text each other and we seem to have a lot of things in common and i had made the move to ask her if we could go out next weekend she said ok let me think about it im not sure if she understood that im tryna get a date cause i dint mention the word date at all also i think her previous relationship was kinda toxic cause she keeps posting these stories on her instagram about a toxic boyfriend im not even sure if shes still with him or not i didnt have the balls to ask idk what i should do at this point each day i say to myself i should just give it up but i just cant get myself to forget about it any advice ??
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2021.10.19 16:57 krayzon1 Accumulating vs Distributing (No L3 taxes). Which type will suit me best?
I'm mid 20s and in the country I live, we don't have L3 taxes. I was wondering which type of ETF will suit me best? According to a diagram I reviewed in the internet:
For doing transactions I'm using Interactive Brokers and in terms of my investment strategy it's investing in VWRA/VWRD single fund (when I approach 30s, I'll start adding bonds).
Can you please let me know your thoughts and always helpful advice? Thanks!
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2021.10.19 16:57 Past-Coffee-3970 are my grades good twin ?
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2021.10.19 16:57 Scarlett_pr12 rates/smash or pass
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2021.10.19 16:57 Crypto-Peter-Pan New milestone $1.1B TVL | $52,000,000 on Arbitrum 👇
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2021.10.19 16:57 Shooter_Nowitzki Am I Love Bombing?
I felt the need to type this to stop and reflect on who I am. Tonight I've been told that I love bomb or was love bombing. Love bombing is when you give meaningless love, attention, gifts and try to be that perfect guy for the girl and once you've got her hooked then that person shows the real side and abuse of who they are. I don't get it, I feel empty, hurt, absolutely meaningless. My heart feels heavy. I've never been told this since I've really only been in one real relationship. All my life I've seen my father abuse my mother and when my older brother and I saw this happening I would immediately try to save my mother and use any object in sight to fight my father to get him to stop abusing my mother. I've learned a lot about what type of person not to be and that's my father. my mother raised me the majority of my life and she did absolutely amazing until now that I am typing this. My mother taught me how to treat a woman and to always be there for her and to be yourself and the best person you can be. I've always had good manners, I always say yes ma’am no ma’am, hold open the door, car door, be polite, overall just be a gentleman. Is it true that girls find assholes attractive? I can't be an as*hole though, I was raised better than that. Is that what a girl wants? In the generation we live in today there's 2 categories of men. You have as*holes, then you have simps. Generally nowadays when you put out for a girl and show her that you care and give her all your attention, and give her gifts you are generally called a simp. In which this ruins a guy's motive on treating a girl right, so then some turn into being an as*hole because that's what they feel girls are supposed to want with social media and this generation we’re in, I guess? Anyways I'm getting off topic, in reality I'm the type of person to fall hard for a girl, to catch feelings quickly and all those bad things after the first date or two. When I feel like I really like the girl after the first date I immediately stop talking to other women and just put my main focus on that person even though I'm single and all that but I can't emotionally and mentally talk to any other girl once I'm talking to someone. I took this girl out to dinner one night and we walked around and talked for a bit about ourselves. The next day I met up with her again and gave her flowers and we went out for dinner and went golfing at a driving range.(2 days later) Tonight we were messaging each other and she sent me a snapchat and I said “you're so cute” because honestly she is really pretty. Later I told her “by the way if you ever wanted to facetime after work or whenever, then let me know but I understand if you don't since you do have a long day of being busy and you're probably tired after work. Just wanted to tell ya” after I sent that she replied and said “so much attention, I should be cautious then” then she went on and said how it sounds like she is being love bombed and that she's been loved bombed in the past a lot. I've never heard of this term nor have ever been told this before. She explained “I've seen a lot of guys who are nice at first, give so much time like always available, and are funny and cool”, I've always been a class clown and I've always been there for people to make them laugh or if they're having a bad day to turn it into a good day, I cant change my personality or me having a good sense of humor. She then said how she's been love bombed in the past and has been fooled, and felt empty and attached, then she said she's going to bed. She left me speechless honestly. This ties back to what I was saying about you have simps, and you have as*holes. I've been told by my ex that I was a simp for her (when we were together) so I am a simp and I'm definitely not an as*hole. I'm so confused about everything like how I was raised and taught by my mom and if I really am this love bombing type of person. The reason why my ex and I broke up was because I put out 1000% for her, when she didn't give the same amount of energy back. I would always chase her and be there for her anytime ever if she was in the wrong and she said she enjoyed me chasing after her because she felt like I was that perfect guy in movies? until one day I was fed up and over it so I broke things off with her for the best of my health and that I knew it wouldn't work out in the end. Anyways I just needed to rant about this and get some peoples opinions over all of this. Thank you so much for those that read this and say something, it means a lot.
p.s. I do want to continue talking to this girl and take things slowly and maybe if things go right between us then I would definitely date her. I don't date just to date by the way, I date because I plan to marry that person.
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2021.10.19 16:57 piercellus Mars as darakaraka (sign of libra in 6H) ???
what does it means to have mars as darakaraka in the sign of libra? I read somewhere that I should look the placement of mars in navamsa chart, therefore those are my placements:-
D1 - Mars in 6H (libra)
D9 - Mars + venus in 9H (libra)
this is my D1 chart. i want to know more about my spouse characteristics and appearance but im quite lost here. can anyone help? thanks!!! (p/s: im female and my sexual orientation is bisexual)
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2021.10.19 16:57 peterpiper1000 Ibkr OTC stocks
Hello!! How do u enable trading permissions for otc stocks on ibkr? I can’t find the trading permission for US penny stocks in my account management page.
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2021.10.19 16:57 CMoMolina Is Scott the Woz universally accepted as the best consoomer to consoom on YouTube?
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2021.10.19 16:57 SourCandy144 Don’t underestimate krapchako delusion
When izuocha becomes canon, that won’t stop the krapchakos. They are probably going to pull some stupid shit like uraraka realises she likes Bakugo and then leaves deku or some crap like that. You can’t stop the krapchakos, they are unpredictable.
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2021.10.19 16:57 kleptokitties If your teammates are together and you get caught out on your own… you are more than likely the person who is not playing as a team.
Just had a game where a silent Rampart ran in a separate direction despite us pinging her to follow us and waiting for her. Of course, she is inevitably downed and jumps onto mic raging about how it’s my fault for not “playing like a team”.
Do any of you ever get into these situations? What’s the best way to deal with it? I ressed them twice and they eventually just quite because we were getting 6th partied.
I don’t work for you.
I’m a private outlands contractor. I tend to work with people I see potential in. Not people who run off into war zones solo.
Thanks for reading my rant!
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2021.10.19 16:57 trueratemepics Non American brahs, how much do you pay for test?
Each visit I have with a doctor is $65, my Test and HCG supply is $150 a month, blood work depends on how many tests I get but is usually about $200. This is with my insurance I pay $200 a month for.
How is it for you guys?
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2021.10.19 16:57 Longjumping-Can1826 Privacy
Privacy is a fundemental right! And many companies and government wants to remove it... there are a few things like the TOR browser that has onion layering, and some browser extensions remove ads and trackers, and viritual private networks (VPN) are also good, but with quantum computers are very efficient at prime number factorization and that is very bad for privacy. The most common encryption is HTTPS and that is end to end encryption. Person A makes a lock that is a number that can only be devided with one prime number and sends that to person B while keeping the key, and person B does the same. But the lock is public and can be used to calculate the key, that would take millions if years for traditional computers, but not for quantum computers. Google has a working quantum computer and even some universities. If the government wants one, they can get one with ease. And big companies can also get one just to show you tailor made ads, thats why i use AdBlocker by the way. Tor is still very secure, but it will only take more time for the quantum computer.
but there is one thing! Quantum encryption! quantum encryption works by using quantum entanglement. you basically entangle some trillions of particles and send some at random, the reciver can say wich ones where correct and if anybody attempts to intercept, the partickles in superposition will be observed and the people sending stuff will know and act acordingly. So that leaves the hacker with only one attempt.
the future of cryptography is here and privacy is about to be taken to the next level!
^^and ^^use ^^adblock
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2021.10.19 16:57 Brachialovum720 my favorite dog breed ! puppies are so cute , aren ‘t they ?
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2021.10.19 16:57 nukacola-4 Never Stop Believing in Yourself
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2021.10.19 16:57 _W_hO_aM_i_ حق😂
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2021.10.19 16:57 Uncia_ Fire Emblem? Mario + Rabbids? No thanks, THIS is my favorite strategy video game
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2021.10.19 16:57 rajanshresth_ Kevin Feige, and Eternals director, Chloé Zhao
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2021.10.19 16:57 FeldmarschallJager We shall fight to end, the Red Province will never surrender!
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2021.10.19 16:57 Ruipx_ Joana Albuquerque
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